I took this photo the day after I left him.
It’s just a mattress on the floor, a mirror propped against the wall, and my cat exploring our new reality. But to me, it represented something I hadn’t felt in five years: safety.
The loft I rented was an old textile factory downtown. Too expensive for what it was, but I paid the deposit with money I’d been secretly setting aside from my small business on the Tedooo app, where I sold hand-painted ceramics. Each coffee mug, each ornament I shipped out was one step closer to this empty room.
Our friends were shockd when I finally left. “”But he’s so charming,”” they’d say. “”You two always seem so happy.”” They never saw how he’d critique my body when we got home, how he’d check my phone while I slept, how he’d “”accidentally”” break my art if I spent too much time working on it.
I didn’t tell anyone I was leaving until I was gone. Just packed what I could fit in my car while he was at work. My cat. My clothes. My pottery wheel. The rest felt like paying a toll to cross a bridge to somewhere better.
That first night, I slept better on this bare mattress than I had in our luxury king bed with Egyptian cotton sheets. My cat curled against my legs, purring in the quiet. No one monitoring my breathing, no one to tiptoe around. Just space—so much beautiful, empty space—to fill however I wanted.
Six months later, my Tedooo shop is thriving enough that I can pay rent without dipping into savings. I’ve added furniture piece by piece, each one chosen solely by me. My cat has a window perch where she watches pigeons. I’m dating someone who brings me coffee in the mornings and asks about my latest designs.
But I keep this photo to remind myself: sometimes the richest moments look like nothing at all.
Credit to the rightful owner~
